Pisces men areextremely mysterious. They have a distant look in their eyes at almost any given moment, and that is because they are constant dreamers. Give him the task of cleaning the blinds, and he’ll drop his cleaning materials at his feet and end up staring out the windows for hours, fantasizing about the woman next door, the prospects of moving to Fiji, the newest computers on the market, or whatever else his mind wanders to. His ruling planet is Neptune, a planet for dreams and alternate realities. Pisces often finds himself wandering through deep seas of "what ifs" and deeper thought than any other sign because of this.
Pisces are art, literature, and music lovers (or at least appreciaters). They are mystical people, true old souls (as they are the very last sign of the zodiac). Also, they don’t sweat the small stuff. Bigger issues, they will get upset over, but they tend to brush off the smaller issues. In his eyes, a distant form of “now” can be seen, but also a distance that may ward off some of his prospective friends and lovers, making him seem unfeeling or cold when in truth he is the exact polar opposite.
He is either one of two things when it comes to household chores: neat freak, or sloppy! There is never a gray area here. He’s either one extreme or the other, although they are very methodical. There is always a method to his mayhem. With money, he manages finance decently enough, but will look to his partner to set a budget. If he is single, he might enlist the help of his mother or another close relative for advice on his bank account and wallet situation. If left to handle his own, he will bankrupt in no time. He’s certainly not afraid to spend or lend money.
They make excellent fathers, very protective and understanding with children. They are usually the first to offer help and advice if you are in a bind, and are incredible listeners. They are also the most intuitive of any of the signs. Water signs, as a rule, have excellent sixth senses, but a Pisces is the best in this arena. They will read you, up one side and down the other, very carefully, and in a matter of hours of knowing someone, they know everything about them.
If a Pisces man is your friend, he’s your friend until the bitter end, unless you mess it up, and even then, they’re likely to be understanding and forgive you (depending on the offense). They’ll take you out, buy the first round of drinks, take care of you if you’re sick, drive you home if you can’t, or even loan you a hundred bucks if you are broke and can’t pay whatever bill it is that you need it for.
They’ll listen to everything you have to say (again, they are the BEST listeners out there), and they will offer consoling words when you need them, and even sometimes when you don’t.
In a romantic relationship, Pisces is a dream lover. He makes sure that you both get what you need from your rendezvous. Nothing makes him happier than bringing his partner to her peak. It gives him a sense of accomplishment, and he needs that. He looks at sex as a means to bond with another human. No, scratch that. He looks as sex as a merging of souls, a way to bring deeper meaning to a relationship. He also looks at sex as an adventure, and he loves to taste different flavors. When he’s not attached, Pisces will discover many, many lovers, at least until he finds the right one. He tends to follow his partners lead, and is very unlikely to initiate. He looks for a strong partner, a woman who isn’t afraid to take lead and ask for what she desires from him, and he also wants a physical joining with a woman to feel “natural,” as if meant to happen or meant to be.
He likes to explore new things, and is likely to enjoy role play games and dressing up for his partner (as long as she goes along with it too). He will use toys, lubes, and other devices in the bedroom, too.
If Pisces isn’t happy in a relationship and feels trapped or cornered or his emotional needs are not met, he will wander and find someone else to fill that void, so beware of this. He won’t cheat unless provoked or left empty, but the minute he decides that this is the right thing to do, you’d better jump to action because the longer he spends in his cheating, the farther he’s swimming from you. Remember, he wants a strong woman to take care of him and his needs. He doesn’t want her wandering about. If you care about him, stay close.
Also, he’s NEVER mentally faithful. He will daydream about many, many other women and situations. He’s unlikely to be physically unfaithful, however, unless…well, see the above passage for that. If he decides that he no longer wants a relationship with you, however, he’ll end it as peacefully as possible and will go to great lengths to try and ween you off of him. He’ll make sure to let you know (whether it’s true or not) that you’ll always have a special place in his heart. My advice, however, is not to let this fish go.
His best matches are Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn, and other Pisces.
Cancer women: This is a great match. Cancer women are extremely faithful, and that is one thing that the Pisces man will absolutely adore about her. He would also love that she would go to great lengths to make sure that he’s taken care of. She’ll cater to his every need, take over with finance (cause let’s face it…she’s great with money, but he’s great at spending it and needs a budget), and make sure that his every want and whim in the bedroom is fulfilled, though she’s a little shy sometimes. He has to bring her out of that. Any problems that this couple might have are quickly resolved in bed. A very strong and lasting long term relationship will blossom with these two as long as she keeps her moods in check and he makes sure to let her know that she’s loved. If not, it’s splitsville…but the break up will be mourned forever by both and they’re not likely to forget each other. Thing is, neither of them is reading this, though. They already know how great they are together.
Scorpio women: Pisces will love that these women are not afraid to initiate bedroom activity, and that they truly excel in that arena. Conflicts can arise when Scorpio cheats, however, if she’s the type that does (and many Scorpio women WILL if their needs aren’t met). When Scorpio keeps secrets (even small ones), Pisces will be slightly offended when she doesn’t come out with it. Also, this couple is bound to have problems when Scorpio feels another woman has taken over her Pisces man’s heart or thoughts. However, most of their problems will be solved in the sack, and a long lasting relationship can come from this.
Capricorn Women: This is an interesting match. They can be quite well together, though Capricorn woman may or may not enjoy catering to his emotional needs and can seem quite superficial and shallow to a Pisces male, however, this is a mostly physical attraction. A long term relationship may blossom here, but it’s not likely to last forever as the Pisces male tends to enjoy the company of a fellow water sign instead.
Pisces Women: These two are right at home together. They’re a very understanding and creative couple, though sometimes their moods can clash and it can end quite nasty! Most of their time will be spent in the bedroom, and as a matter of fact, they might not ever come out of there! Long term relationships can flourish here.In closing, you should remember that Pisces men are the ultimate Don Juans. They are very intuitive, and use sex on a deeper level than any other sign. They are faithful friends, careful lovers, picky of their partners in more long term relationships, though not so picky in short term relationships, and incredibly gentle. They're the best friends you could ever ask for, and they're very sympathetic and kind.
***This post originally appeared in Rhiannon's Paranormally Romantic Bits & Pieces, my other blog***